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In response to "short answer: yes." by b.

Sure, but when she sets it up that way...and in such a way that her family is included and mine isn't... -- nm

Posted by Stephen (Status Seeker) (aka Sceire) Aug 13 '10, 12:59

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imo, if she spent all this time carrying and delivering the baby, she gets... what's reasonable? like 6 hours? - TFox Aug 13, 13:05 17
- Agreed. - musubi Aug 13, 13:10
- Amy said no visits the *day* of. That was for the three of us. - Spawn Aug 13, 13:09 6
  - See, that's what I wanted, but even with Connor it was her moms, and her grandma that were there right afterwards... - Stephen (Status Seeker) Aug 13, 13:21
  - Then reitirate that and say the sister can bring Conor, but then she has to leave, and can see the baby the next day. -- nm - the liioulu with heat advisory Aug 13, 13:16 1
    - Sorry, misread the pposter. -- nm - the liioulu with heat advisory Aug 13, 13:20
  - See, that's what I wanted, but even with Connor it was her moms, and her grandma that were there right afterwards... - Stephen (Status Seeker) Aug 13, 13:16
  - personally, that's what i would prefer. i didn't want to deal with anyone else that day. -- nm - TFox Aug 13, 13:11 1
    - It really made sense and made it far more enjoyable. - Spawn Aug 13, 13:15
- logic would dictate nine months. -- nm - loosilu Aug 13, 13:06 8
  - eff that. she already cashed in a lot of it getting pancakes and backrubs and shit. - TFox Aug 13, 13:08 7
    - right, because 2 hours a week of pancakes and backrubs is equivalent. -- nm - loosilu Aug 13, 13:09 6
      - he's totally joking. -- nm - b. Aug 13, 13:11 5
        
        loosi is too - Roger More Aug 13, 13:12 3
        
        zing! (nm) - musubi Aug 13, 13:14
        
        you are so dead. -- nm - loosilu Aug 13, 13:13
        
        heh. -- nm - TFox Aug 13, 13:12
        
        I know. - loosilu Aug 13, 13:12
she also gets to decide who sees her after she's gone through surgery. - b. Aug 13, 13:04 7
- p.s. if it is just about seeing the baby, like in the nursery instead of her room, I'd wager ashlee wouldn't have an issue with it. -- nm - b. Aug 13, 13:08 4
  - I don't think most hospitals have nurseries anymore. (nm) - musubi Aug 13, 13:19 2
    - although some hospitals still have them, I should have said "a nursery" instead. -- nm - b. Aug 13, 13:21
    - STOP IGNORING ME!!! -- nm - Spawn Aug 13, 13:21
  - That was why I asked. A lot of hospitals don;t do the nursery thing, unless theer are complications. -- nm - Spawn Aug 13, 13:08
- this too. I'd pick my sister or best friend before anyone else. -- nm - loosilu Aug 13, 13:07 1
  - *feels shunned* -- nm - dogbert Aug 13, 13:14
You've got two choices - suck it up, or invite your sister to come too. -- nm - the liioulu with heat advisory Aug 13, 13:01
20 years down the road, no one's going to give a crap about who saw who first. -- nm - Reagen Aug 13, 13:00 13
- hurt feelings are hurt feelings. - Stephen (Status Seeker) Aug 13, 13:09 7
  - Is your sister making an issue of it? "Is someone seeing the new baby before me?" - JaxSean Aug 13, 13:16 1
    - She isn't, because she doesn't know yet. - Stephen (Status Seeker) Aug 13, 13:25
  - And people can let hurt feelings go. - musubi Aug 13, 13:13
  - all I'm saying is, you can make this an issue, or you can take the long view that it's not going to matter in the end. -- nm - Reagen Aug 13, 13:11
  - I would really play up the "hurting from the surgery and does not want to entertain" aspect, then. -- nm - Spawn Aug 13, 13:10
  - if its part of a pattern, that's different, but people shouldn't feel excluded if they don't get to immediately see other people's babies. * - TFox Aug 13, 13:10 1
    - it's the "before the other person" part where it gets weird. -- nm - loosilu Aug 13, 13:11
- This. (nm) - musubi Aug 13, 13:08
- I disagree. My mother and I saw my my niece before any other (non mom & dad) family members 14 years ago. - Spawn Aug 13, 13:07
- this. I never understood the whole thing about this. -- nm - loosilu Aug 13, 13:01
- what else are they going to have to fight about in the hovercar? -- nm - crash davis Aug 13, 13:01 1
  - whose turn it is to get probed by the Antaerians. -- nm - Reagen Aug 13, 13:02

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Sure, but when she sets it up that way...and in such a way that her family is included and mine isn't... -- nm

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