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In response to
"20 years down the road, no one's going to give a crap about who saw who first. -- nm"
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Reagen
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hurt feelings are hurt feelings.
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If you feel you're being slighted, or excluded, which I think in this situation seem to be justified, and there have been other situations as well, could lead to continuing problems, feuding, whatever...
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Responses:
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Is your sister making an issue of it? "Is someone seeing the new baby before me?"
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JaxSean
Aug 13, 13:16
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And people can let hurt feelings go.
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musubi
Aug 13, 13:13
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all I'm saying is, you can make this an issue, or you can take the long view that it's not going to matter in the end. -- nm
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Reagen
Aug 13, 13:11
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I would really play up the "hurting from the surgery and does not want to entertain" aspect, then. -- nm
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Spawn
Aug 13, 13:10
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if its part of a pattern, that's different, but people shouldn't feel excluded if they don't get to immediately see other people's babies. *
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TFox
Aug 13, 13:10
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