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In response to "Dating a Muslim is different. In 1 year, his parents know nothing, they do sleep together but he doesn't ever want to marry her (or her lack of belief" by Hotkiss

honestly, it sounds as if it's not just about the parents. He is not ok with it himself. -- nm

Posted by loosilu at work (aka loosilu2) Sep 15 '10, 09:00

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he wants his future little girls to stay in the house, no alcohol around, religious, etc. She will not stand for that. Yet they love each other now. -- nm - Hotkiss Sep 15, 09:02 22
- i'm sure the impossible-ness of it all no doubt escalates the love. - kare Sep 15, 09:06 11
  - she just admitted she loves him more than he loves her. "he stopped himself from falling too hard, and I couldn't control myself." - Hotkiss Sep 15, 09:08 7
    - Sorry, not everyone approaches relationships with blubbering, squishy romanticism -- nm - con_carne Sep 15, 09:16
    - relationships are messy things. -- nm - znufrii Sep 15, 09:11
    - I don't agree with that. I think if he knew it would never last he could keep himself more emotionally detatched. -- nm - pmb Sep 15, 09:10
    - mmm, i kind of disagree. there are varying levels of love. sometimes, believe it or not, you have some say over your feelings. ;) -- nm - kare Sep 15, 09:09 2
      - I agree with kare. (nm) - musubi Sep 15, 09:27
      - hmmm, I don't think I've succeed, but I have learned how to manage them. -- nm - loosilu at work Sep 15, 09:10
    - agreed with your IM. -- nm - loosilu at work Sep 15, 09:08
  - been there. -- nm - loosilu at work Sep 15, 09:07
  - "It started out like Romeo and Juliet, but ended up in tragedy!" -- nm - Reagen Sep 15, 09:06 1
    - *giggle* (nm) - musubi Sep 15, 09:07
- So, basically, it was doomed from the start. - musubi Sep 15, 09:05 7
  - of course, if he's so religious, what's he doing screwing around? -- nm - loosilu at work Sep 15, 09:06 6
    - Same thing she is. (nm) - musubi Sep 15, 09:09 4
      - doesn't sound like he lied, but he does sound like kind of a hypocrite who is screwing around with the hot foreigner. -- nm - loosilu at work Sep 15, 09:09 3
        
        Meh. Irrelevant. She knew what she was getting into. (nm) - musubi Sep 15, 09:22
        
        she obviously hated every moment of it, and was totally duped. -- nm - kare Sep 15, 09:10 1
        
        I didn't say that. He was honest that he doesn't respect her beliefs and that this was a throwaway. -- nm - loosilu at work Sep 15, 09:11
    - don't you get it? he *loves* her. - znufrii Sep 15, 09:07
- I get that. they just have to get over it. it sucks. -- nm - loosilu at work Sep 15, 09:03
- ~Beauty and the beast~ -- nm - con_carne Sep 15, 09:03

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