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In response to
"it doesn't say "no one gets in without a cash donation"."
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Reagen
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that's not the point. As Andie said, it's fine for them to tell people they prefer cash, if asked. But not on the invite. -- nm
Posted by
loosilu (aka loosilu2)
Sep 17 '10, 08:29
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The only way to stop people from brining 17 toasters is to put it on the invite. Very few will call them and ask what they want/need. -- nm
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Jim
Sep 17, 08:32
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I'd prefer it on the invite, rather than a note later saying the same thing. -- nm
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Roger More
Sep 17, 08:31
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you men are etiquette heathens. You don't get a note later. You ask them directly (or their family or friends) what they prefer. -- nm
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loosilu
Sep 17, 08:32
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no one actually does this. -- nm
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Reagen
Sep 17, 08:33
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Sure...because leading up to my wedding, there's nothing I want more than 200 phone calls asking me what I want. -- nm
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Jim
Sep 17, 08:33
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etiquette is dumb. someone needs to write a book of practicality, and then follow that shit. -- nm
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TFox
Sep 17, 08:33
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the reason i always give cash is i know it will never be unwanted. but i still don't like to see gift requests in writing. -- nm
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Andie
Sep 17, 08:33
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Or if the couple wants to be proactive, they ask people (parents, bridesmaids, etc.) to spread the word on their behalf... -- nm
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znufrii
Sep 17, 08:33
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