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In response to "*shrug* It just seems to me that people equate compatibility with similarity. And I think that's wrong." by Beryllium

I have been dragged to many a game. that is also not the point. The point is, I can meet generic "guys" anywhere.

Posted by loosilu (aka loosilu2) Oct 14 '10, 11:48

the difficulty is meeting guys I have stuff in common with. It seems pretty inefficient if not just stupid to go to an event I don't enjoy if my goal is to find guys who have some things in common with me.

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and your current efficiency is...? -- nm - Reagen Oct 14, 11:58 2
- currently I am actively not looking. -- nm - loosilu Oct 14, 11:58 1
  - Oh, OK, I'll stop wasting my breath then. Move along. -- nm - Beryllium Oct 14, 11:59
But I just said that it's a fallacy to equate similarity with compatibility -- nm - Beryllium Oct 14, 11:54 6
- I don't know what compatibility is for me. (truth). Similarity at least gives something to talk about besides the weather. -- nm - loosilu Oct 14, 11:55 5
  - I get that it's a comfort zone thing. But the strategy should be to get them to talk, and for you to listen. -- nm - Beryllium Oct 14, 11:57 1
    - no, that IS my comfort zone. I want something else. -- nm - loosilu Oct 14, 11:58
  - Doesn't the baseball game thing usually come up when you're complaining about not knowing where to find men? - Will Hunting Oct 14, 11:56 2
    - I can and do meet generic men at all of those places. -- nm - loosilu Oct 14, 11:57 1
      - What I need (if I were looking) is a filter. -- nm - loosilu Oct 14, 12:01
There are drinks there, fresh air, better lighting than a bar, ample time for conversation... -- nm - Vermintown Oct 14, 11:51 1
- also true at multiple other places. -- nm - loosilu Oct 14, 11:51

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I have been dragged to many a game. that is also not the point. The point is, I can meet generic "guys" anywhere.

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