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In response to "boston.com Love Letters - Should I tell my Ex that I'm remarrying?" by Diva

He'll appreciate hearing it directly, I think. A mailed announcement would probably suffice, though. -- nm

Posted by znufrii Oct 29 '10, 08:30

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You really think he will? Reread. -- nm - Spawn Oct 29, 08:32 19
- comes off to me that he was more pissed about not being told about the bf, than her having one in the first place. -- nm - znufrii Oct 29, 08:34 18
  - Uh, that is what he wants her to think, but no. This guy is going to be pissed, regardless. -- nm - Spawn Oct 29, 08:37 2
    - Maybe, probably or even certainly. How he reacts to stuff is no longer her concern. -- nm - Diva Oct 29, 08:47
    - Then that reflects all the more poorly on him. - znufrii Oct 29, 08:44
  - again, what possible business of his is it that she has a bf 6 years after the divorce?! -- nm - Beaker Oct 29, 08:35 14
    - actually it was two years. -- nm - loosilu Oct 29, 09:08
    - I just think it's disrespectful not to tell him. They have mutual friends and they were married at one point. Even with everything, they still seem - pmb Oct 29, 08:37 12
      - This guys seems to have lost the right to such respect. -- nm - Spawn Oct 29, 08:41 11
        
        but she can still take the high road. if he doesn't care, then, no harm done. and if does, then he can't say he found out in an awkward way. - Andie Oct 29, 08:43 10
        
        I agree whole heartedly with Andie. - !qnsnw Oct 29, 08:51
        
        There is no high road, here. -- nm - Spawn Oct 29, 08:50 5
        
        yeah, taking the high road to avoid drama for yourself from someone you don't respect or care about really isn't the high road. -- nm - Max Oct 29, 08:56 4
        
        But rubbing it in his face is not, either. What would Jim Kirk do? -- nm - Spawn Oct 29, 09:06 3
        
        go to another planet and f*ck some blue alien bitch with 3 boobs. - Diva Oct 29, 09:08
        
        it's not "rubbing it in his face" to let him know in the same manner she tells everyone else. - znufrii Oct 29, 09:08 1
        
        But to *him* it will be. -- nm - Spawn Oct 29, 09:14
        
        honestly, unless the guy is still hung up on her or something he won't be embarassed and will most likely find it silly - decline Oct 29, 08:48 1
        
        She should tell him via invite to be her Man of Honor. -- nm - Max Oct 29, 08:49
        
        Exactly. And I gues I don't see the guy as quite the a-hole that others do. It is possible that what pissed him off so much was that in a - pmb Oct 29, 08:47

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