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An old friend who used to (and still does) have the major hots for me wants to meet before he graduates and leaves forever. Boyfriend is uncomfortable

Posted by Hotkiss (aka hotkiss7348) Dec 15 '08, 16:55

with this. That's probably grounds for avoiding the meeting even though he was a great close friend at one time, right? Which really sucks.

Why do guys always fall in love? :(

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Right now is when you set the "tone" with the boyfriend. - Trish Dec 15, 17:08 22
- i agree with Trish. show the current boyfriend who is boss! -- nm - Guy Dec 15, 17:23
- I disagree in this case. This is somene that has proven he wants to get with her and this is his last chance. - Rorschach: 03/06/09 Dec 15, 17:16 19
  - But who does she like better, old friend or new boyfriend? - Trish Dec 15, 17:21 12
    - crash, you got any old flames you want to ring up? -- nm - Reagen Dec 15, 17:26 2
      - Heh, we're living in his (small) hometown. He runs into them all the time. - Trish Dec 15, 17:29 1
        
        Age factors in. Plus a ring. - Rorschach: 03/06/09 Dec 15, 17:31
    - It's highly disrespectful to boyfriend to give old friend a shot, however unlikely his chances. -- nm - Dr.Vermin Dec 15, 17:24 6
      - It's a "meeting". He didn't call her up and say, "hey, let's fuck". -- nm - Trish Dec 15, 17:27 5
        
        L3 -- nm - Epiphany Dec 15, 17:29
        
        Yes he did. - TFox Dec 15, 17:29 3
        
        See, I tend to take things at face value. - Trish Dec 15, 17:30 2
        
        The guy that wants to jam her, and already tried to jam her despite her having this same BF, and who can keep up with her just fine via the Internet.. - TFox Dec 15, 17:32 1
        
        The fact that the phrase "before he leaves forever" is used, proves it. -- nm - Rorschach: 03/06/09 Dec 15, 17:32
    - I disagree. - Rorschach: 03/06/09 Dec 15, 17:22 1
      - (be sure to factor in age, as well) -- nm - Rorschach: 03/06/09 Dec 15, 17:22
  - Might have a point. It's the desperation play. I know this move very well. -- nm - Redmond Dec 15, 17:18 5
    - It's in every 80's teen flick I know. -- nm - CQ draped in tinsel Dec 15, 17:24
    - Yeah, I have scored in this position a few times. - Rorschach: 03/06/09 Dec 15, 17:20 3
      - It is an effective play, to be sure. -- nm - TFox Dec 15, 17:22 2
        
        (In fact, the only wrong answer here is tell the BF you aren't going and then go anyway.) - TFox Dec 15, 17:24
        
        It honestly is a situation where you have the most power. -- nm - Rorschach: 03/06/09 Dec 15, 17:24
- What she said! -- nm - lileve Dec 15, 17:10
Telling ST about my feelings for you is unfair. We agreed you wouldn't tell. - Redmond Dec 15, 17:08
Have you never seen When Harry Met Sally? -- nm - Cuzzin the Red Nosed Todd Dec 15, 17:05 1
- It's true?! -- nm - Hotkiss Dec 15, 17:06
Why do birds suddenly appear when you're near? -- nm - Guy Dec 15, 17:03
Go for it. You might regret it later if you don't. Get his e-mail addy too. -- nm - lileve Dec 15, 17:00
Have dinner with him AND the boyfriend! -- nm - Dr.Vermin, relationship counselor Dec 15, 16:56 8
- Actually not bad advice. Yes, it'll be awkward, but ... -- nm - the liioulu with glazed sidewalks Dec 15, 17:01 5
  - Except for the part where they used to be good friends until he tried to get with me. If there's anyone Boyfriend hates, it's him. -- nm - Hotkiss Dec 15, 17:05 4
    - Oh. The backstory changes my advice. - Dr.Vermin Dec 15, 17:11 1
      - I think I agree. but tell the friend why. -- nm - candy canes love mandy lane Dec 15, 17:12
    - Ah well, if you do it tell boyfriend you're doing it anyway. -- nm - the liioulu with glazed sidewalks Dec 15, 17:08 1
      - Uhm, not that you're doing it anyway, but you should tell him anyway. -- nm - the liioulu with glazed sidewalks Dec 15, 17:10
- and then have a threesome afterwards! -- nm - znufrii, sex counselor Dec 15, 16:56 1
  - I swear this was an SI - Epiphany Dec 15, 17:20

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