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you know, i think if my bf wanted to lunch with a chick who clearly has the hots for him, i'd probably keep my mouth mostly shut about it.

Posted by kare (aka kare) Dec 15 '08, 18:35

but i'd be doing a *lot* of silent observation.

if something happened that ultimately broke us up, she'd be doing me a favor.

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btw, I totally agree with your im. -- nm - loosilu Dec 15, 18:37
a chick who has put major moves on him before? that's what HK says about this guy. -- nm - loosilu Dec 15, 18:36 19
- honestly, i think he would probably avoid these chicks out of respect for me. but i'm not really interested in telling him what to do or what not to - kare Dec 15, 18:39 18
  - This was *my* point. - Trish Dec 15, 18:48 15
    - maybe the current BF is right to freak out? -- nm - loosilu Dec 15, 18:50 14
      - I don't think "freaking out" is right. I certainly think he's entitled to say how he feels, but "freaking out" seems above an beyond that. - ReluctantCynic Dec 15, 19:02 4
        
        For the record, hotkiss' original description said "boyfriend is uncomfortable with this". There have been no documented freakouts, per se. -- nm - Dr.Vermin Dec 15, 19:06 3
        
        right, if we're goign to nitpick, we should at least nitpick what she actually said. -- nm - loosilu Dec 15, 19:09 2
        
        Good point -- but I think the logic of my arguent still stands. - ReluctantCynic Dec 15, 19:12
        
        I blame Trish. :) -- nm - Dr.Vermin Dec 15, 19:09
      - Showing that kind of disrespect is fit-worthy, IMO. -- nm - Dr.Vermin Dec 15, 18:51 8
        
        what good does it do? then you're just trying to control the other person. which just makes the whole situation worse. - kare Dec 15, 18:55 2
        
        I'm thinking of the boyfriend's 'fit' as a reaction, not a conscious attempt at manipulation. - Dr.Vermin Dec 15, 19:03 1
        
        heh. i'm just saying the "silent observation" thing would be the appropriate thing for me, at this point in time, in this type of situation. - kare Dec 15, 19:12
        
        Then it's good he finds this kind of stuff out now, rather than later. -- nm - Trish Dec 15, 18:52
        
        that's sort of what I'm trying to say. -- nm - loosilu Dec 15, 18:51 3
        
        I was agreeing with you! That's why he's right to freak out. -- nm - Dr.Vermin Dec 15, 18:53 2
        
        we agree! -- nm - loosilu Dec 15, 18:55 1
        
        *thunderbolt* -- nm - Reagen Dec 15, 18:59
  - yeah. I think if I were in this situation I would avoid the other guy out of respect. -- nm - loosilu Dec 15, 18:41 1
    - ditto. -- nm - kare Dec 15, 18:45

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you know, i think if my bf wanted to lunch with a chick who clearly has the hots for him, i'd probably keep my mouth mostly shut about it.

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