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In response to "honestly, i think he would probably avoid these chicks out of respect for me. but i'm not really interested in telling him what to do or what not to " by kare

This was my point.

Posted by Trish (aka Trish) Dec 15 '08, 18:48

Clearly, if she's still interested in the other guy, then current boyfriend needs to do some thinking. If it's just a friendship thing, then who cares, she should lunch with him.

I just have a problem with current BF having a fit over it. Plus, as far as the sex thing goes, it's not like we're animals, we CAN control ourselves. Well, except for David Ducovney.

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maybe the current BF is right to freak out? -- nm - loosilu Dec 15, 18:50 14
- I don't think "freaking out" is right. I certainly think he's entitled to say how he feels, but "freaking out" seems above an beyond that. - ReluctantCynic Dec 15, 19:02 4
  - For the record, hotkiss' original description said "boyfriend is uncomfortable with this". There have been no documented freakouts, per se. -- nm - Dr.Vermin Dec 15, 19:06 3
    - right, if we're goign to nitpick, we should at least nitpick what she actually said. -- nm - loosilu Dec 15, 19:09 2
      - Good point -- but I think the logic of my arguent still stands. - ReluctantCynic Dec 15, 19:12
      - I blame Trish. :) -- nm - Dr.Vermin Dec 15, 19:09
- Showing that kind of disrespect is fit-worthy, IMO. -- nm - Dr.Vermin Dec 15, 18:51 8
  - what good does it do? then you're just trying to control the other person. which just makes the whole situation worse. - kare Dec 15, 18:55 2
    - I'm thinking of the boyfriend's 'fit' as a reaction, not a conscious attempt at manipulation. - Dr.Vermin Dec 15, 19:03 1
      - heh. i'm just saying the "silent observation" thing would be the appropriate thing for me, at this point in time, in this type of situation. - kare Dec 15, 19:12
  - Then it's good he finds this kind of stuff out now, rather than later. -- nm - Trish Dec 15, 18:52
  - that's sort of what I'm trying to say. -- nm - loosilu Dec 15, 18:51 3
    - I was agreeing with you! That's why he's right to freak out. -- nm - Dr.Vermin Dec 15, 18:53 2
      - we agree! -- nm - loosilu Dec 15, 18:55 1
        
        *thunderbolt* -- nm - Reagen Dec 15, 18:59

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