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In response to "Showing that kind of disrespect is fit-worthy, IMO. -- nm" by Dr.Vermin

what good does it do? then you're just trying to control the other person. which just makes the whole situation worse.

Posted by kare (aka kare) Dec 15 '08, 18:55

sit back and see what your SO decides to do, and how up front they are about everything, and how they act about it all. then make your decisions accordingly.

but i am kind of in the evaluation phase, myself, so that's affecting my perspective. if you're married, maybe it's a little different.

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I'm thinking of the boyfriend's 'fit' as a reaction, not a conscious attempt at manipulation. - Dr.Vermin Dec 15, 19:03 1
- heh. i'm just saying the "silent observation" thing would be the appropriate thing for me, at this point in time, in this type of situation. - kare Dec 15, 19:12

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what good does it do? then you're just trying to control the other person. which just makes the whole situation worse.

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