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In response to
"what good does it do? then you're just trying to control the other person. which just makes the whole situation worse."
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kare
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I'm thinking of the boyfriend's 'fit' as a reaction, not a conscious attempt at manipulation.
Posted by
Dr.Vermin (aka Dr.Vermin)
Dec 15 '08, 19:03
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Though AFAIK it very well may be.
But I don't think there's EVER any reason not to express your feelings about a situation with your SO. Nagging, manipulating, harping about something is not the same as "hey, I don't trust that guy and neither should you. Do what you want, but you should know that it bothers me."
I'm not judging, but I shudder at your sitting back with the silent observation... watching, studying, evaluating. Yikes. Tell me what you want me to do! I'm not saying I'm always going to do it, but a guy's gotta KNOW!
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