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meredith's Love Letters response to: I Don't Want to be Creepy

Posted by Diva (aka Diva) Dec 22 '10, 14:17

You won't seem like a creep if you're honest, W.

Just put it all out there. "Cindy, I'd love to hang out with you -- but is that OK? Would it be a date? Should we be friends? I'm new to this and it has been years since I lost my wife. I'm worried about saying the wrong thing and making you uncomfortable."

If Cindy is interested, she'll let you know. And if she's only interested as a friend, she'll tell you that, too. She's warm. She's not shy with you. She wants to know you better. She's going to help you through this awkward conversation.

At the very least, she'll be good practice. Don't put her out of your mind. Don't shy away from her because dating is scary. You're a human, not just a dad. And this is exciting, right?

It's almost never wrong to tell someone that you have no idea what you're doing, as long as you're being sincere.

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I love that Meredith thought the age gap was so irrelevant that she never even addressed it in her reply. - Trish Dec 22, 14:26
"Just wear your heart on your penis and she'll eat it up." -- nm - Max Dec 22, 14:26
If he asks is that ok, would it be a date etc he'll just come off as a wuss. Just say "hey I'm going to that (thing you were on about) if you want to - Loyola Dec 22, 14:23 7
- The opportunity is being handed to this guy and Meredith is telling him to divulge all his mystery/secrets. Whyinthef*ck? - con_carne wants it so bad Dec 22, 14:27 6
  - 'for hos own good' - Classic -- nm - Diva Dec 22, 14:33 5
    - Disregard females, acquire currency. -- nm - TFox Dec 22, 14:34
    - Calling Dr. Freud :-/ -- nm - con_carne wants it so bad Dec 22, 14:33 3
      - It's like if a pimp had an advice column. "Tell that b!tch the truth for that hos own good." -- nm - Diva Dec 22, 14:35 2
        
        You make me laugh daily - Epiphany Dec 22, 15:11 1
        
        :) -- nm - Diva Dec 22, 15:14
"You won't seem like a creep if you're honest, W." One sentence that could have spared us a lot of grief 2001-2008. -- nm - con_carne wants it so bad Dec 22, 14:19 2
- *golf clap* -- nm - TFox Dec 22, 14:22
- hee -- nm - JaxSean Dec 22, 14:20

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