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In response to "I know its evening ST, so not everyone is around, but I need advice" by tRuMaN

FWIW - I think you should be the friend to her that she's been to you - but if anything seems too much - let her know. If she's a friend she will

Posted by JenBro Feb 11 '11, 15:52

understand. You could even joke about it and say - "Look ______ (insert her name) - I'll help you get on your feet - just like you helped me out - but don't go falling in love with me ok? I don't want to ruin a perfectly good friendship."

You can say it again later too ... "remember what I said about falling for me?"

Just keep your own expectations in check - and do as much or as little as you want - if you have the free time and skills - think of it as a karma boost ... you never know what can happen. Maybe nothing goes beyond the friendship with her ... but she tells a friend how great you are and fixes you up with someone else? *shrugs*

also - if you need bolstering - ST will always be here to coach you - so don't be afraid - we're all on your team!

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she is already trying to play matchmaker. - tRuMaN Feb 11, 15:54 1
- well then she probably thinks you're a terrific guy that deserves someone and she's keeping you in the friend zone - as long as you can handle it - - JenBro Feb 11, 15:58

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FWIW - I think you should be the friend to her that she's been to you - but if anything seems too much - let her know. If she's a friend she will

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