I know its evening ST, so not everyone is around, but I need advice
A good friend of mine (female) is most likely going to get divorced.
She keeps expressing her desire to have me help her out after the divorce, not financially or anything like that, but with life stuff. some simple (setup computer network) some strange (help her learn how to pay bills online, I know, its strange) some just because she wants a stable male figure around her two young boys (4 and 2), others because I think she is afraid of things.
I sense a lot of danger there. a lot. I mean yes, honestly, this girl is gorgeous. but, again honestly, she is way way way way way out of my league. she is my friend, and she has greatly helped me get out and relearn to be me in the last year or so. but do I want to become a surrogate husband with no benefits?
what does st think? I am not saying anything will happen, but I am worried that she will rely too much on someone like me, who cannot really so no to friends in need. I would rather her just be a friend, with me occasionally hanging out (like now) then being a surrogate husband until she meets a new man (which is how it sounds when she talks about this).
I know I am stupid, thanks for reminding me.