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In response to "double bonus friday hax chat q: she got to know new girl in the office by helping her plan a lot of wedding stuff. now she wants to be invited" by moles

you never ask. you can't ask. it's up to her and she has her reasons.

Posted by Andie (aka Andie) Mar 18 '11, 12:50

maybe it's 'how can i invite new-office-friend when i left university-roommate off the list?"

you don't know, but you NEVER ask.

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I've always wondered this. Why is it so taboo to ask for a wedding invite, under any circumstances? -- nm - con_carne Mar 18, 13:06 4
- It's not about you. (You being the person asking.) - Name Withheld By Request Mar 18, 13:11
- (I'm guessing the expense has a lot to do with it, but there seems to me to be more to it...) -- nm - con_carne Mar 18, 13:10
- it's presumptuous. -- nm - znufrii Mar 18, 13:10 1
  - and that holds for any social event, really. Not just weddings. -- nm - znufrii Mar 18, 13:11
this. -- nm - loosilu Mar 18, 12:53
there's a woman here at work that I'd love to ask but I'm in the same sitch as you described in the IM. - Diva Mar 18, 12:52 6
- Booter's coming though, right? -- nm - moles Mar 18, 12:54 5
  - this is scary. -- nm - Mel Profit Mar 18, 13:03
  - Hells yeah. -- nm - Diva - Mind of Mush Mar 18, 12:56 3
    - what would happen if Dawson brought Chun as his plus one? -- nm - moles Mar 18, 12:56 2
      - The hotel would lose it's liquor license and have to pay thru the nose for breaking the fire codes. -- nm - Diva - Mind of Mush Mar 18, 13:02 1
        
        on the plus side, they'd be out of booze and they wouldn't have to worry about the fire codes as the place would be burned to the ground. -- nm - Mel Profit Mar 18, 13:25
Agreed. -- nm - pmb Mar 18, 12:52
Then she should have never gotten a stranger involved so deep. -- nm - lileve Mar 18, 12:51 1
- they aren't strangers, they are co-workers. and, who is to say that letter-writer didn't ask questions and encourage the topic? -- nm - Andie Mar 18, 12:54

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you never ask. you can't ask. it's up to her and she has her reasons.

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